La Voz

I have been so stressed lately. I have a two-year old child, I'm a full-time student and I just started a new job. How can I actually enjoy myself and be less stressed?

First off, props on going to school while having a child! Okay do me a favor … breathe! Yeah, you did it!

Here are some suggestions: Try scheduling your classes only two days out of the week (for example, Mondays and Wednesdays). That way you have more days to spend at your job, with your kid and by yourself.

Take at least one class that you want to take, a fun class. Also designate one day out of the week as time to yourself.

Finally, take some time either in the morning or late afternoons as "mommy and me" time. Play at the park, color or build with blocks. This will not only relax you, but also help you bond with your child.

I'm new to campus. I feel so alone. How can I get over freshman blues?

Look around you. Everyone you see was once new, so don't feel embarrassed. It's hard adjusting to a new campus, but believe me, there is hope. There are plenty of clubs to join. Just go to the Student Activities office and they are posted on the board outside across from the Health office. If clubs are not your cup of tea then start a study group in one of your classes. That way you become closer to some classmates. If you don't want to do that, try getting an on-campus job. This way you feel more in touch with the campus, and you can make money doing it! Ever thought about joining La Voz? It's a great way to get to know De Anza better. Any way you choose, those blues will fade away.


Do you have an unanswered question burning your overworked mind? Just email your queries to lavoz@fhda.edu, or drop it off in our box outside L-41.